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Jacob Thomas Graves

Jacob Thomas Graves

Male 1783 - 1875  (92 years)


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  • Name Jacob Thomas Graves
    Birth 01 Jan 1783  NC Find all individuals with events at this location  [1, 2
    • or SC
    Gender Male
    _MILT 1812  [3
    Soldier and Widow's Pensions 
    Census 1850  District 2, Tippah Co, MS Find all individuals with events at this location  [2
    age 66,wife Elizabeth-age 45, 7 children 
    Census 1860  Shelby Creek, Tippah Co, MS Find all individuals with events at this location  [4
    age 70,wife Elisabeth-age 55, son Henry-age 15 
    Census 1870  Salem, Tippah Co, MS Find all individuals with events at this location  [5
    age 86,wife Elizabeth-age 66, son Henry-age 25 & his family, & 1 other 
    Death 09 Mar 1875  Tippah Co, MS Find all individuals with events at this location  [1
    Will Bef 26 Mar 1876  Tippah Co, MS Find all individuals with events at this location  [6
    Recorded 3/26/1876 in Benton Co, MS Will Book Vol 1, p.16 
    Findagrave.com 27 Jun 2023 
    See Notes 
    Burial Tippah Co, MS Find all individuals with events at this location  [1
    • Shelby Creek Cemetery
    Person ID I457  Butler Family Tree
    Last Modified 6 Jun 2026

    Father William Graves,   b. Abt 1750   d. Between 1808 and 1809, Franklin Co, TN Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 58 years)
    Relationship natural
    Mother Elizabeth ???,   b. Bef 1768
    Relationship natural
    Marriage Bef 01 Jan 1783 
    Family ID F159  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

    Family 1 ???-xx ???
    Notes 

    • Children:

      son James Simpson Graves
      dau Elizabeth Graves
      - married Frank Hobson
      son Hectir Simpson Graves
      dau Catherine Graves
      - married ??? Matthews
    Family ID F1260  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart
    Last Modified 6 Jun 2026

    Family 2 Peggy Johnson-xx   d. Bef 1820
    Marriage Between 1803 and 1806 
    Notes 

    • Children:

      - Graves, by Peggy Johnson
      13. daughter, b. 1804-10, perhaps 1807.
      14. daughter, b. 1804-10, perhaps 1809.
      15. daughter, b. 1810-20.
      16. son, b. 1810-20. Perhaps William Graves.
      17. daughter, b. 1810-20.
      18. son, b. 1810-20. Perhaps John Graves.
      +19. Elizabeth Caroline Graves, b.c. 1818, m. Reuben Riggs

      - the above presumably deducted from an 1820 census
    Family ID F1261  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart
    Last Modified 6 Jun 2026

    Family 3 Mary Counts-xx
    Marriage Between 1821 and 1824 
    Notes 

    • Children:

      son Jacob Graves 11/30/1822 - 8/9/1916 Delaware, Logan Co, AR
      - ** See his findagrave.com page **
      - on 12/8/1843 married Lucinda Flick 9/20/1827 - 3/6/1880 Delaware, Logan Co, AR
      - both buried - Graves Cemetery, Delaware, Logan Co, AR
      son William Carroll Graves 3/30/1826 - 4/19/1888
      - ** See his findagrave.com page **
      - abt 1849 married Louisa Jemima McInturff 1824 - 1914
      son James Edgar Graves 10/17/1826 - 1/30/1886
      - ** See his findagrave.com page **
      - abt 1854 married Paralee Frances Rainey 1835 - 1911
      son Thomas Graves 6/27/1827 TN - 11/21/1919
      - ** See his will **
      - ** See his findagrave.com page **
      - married Eliza Englebright 1857
      - Bur. Shelby Creek Cem.
      - No children, but see next generation for more information.
      son George Washington Graves 9/19/1829
      - m(1) Martha Ann Hopper
      - m(2) Sarah Rebecca James
      dau Nancy Graves abt 1833 (Jackson Co., AL). Possible twin to Hester
      dau Hester Graves abt 1833 - bef 3/9/1875 (father's will lists her as dec. dau)
      - abt 1848 married Wyatt Simpson
      - 1850 census lists her as age 17, spouse Wyatt-age 26, son James H-age 0
      - in District 2, Tippah Co, MS
      - 1860 census lists her as age 27, spouse Wyat-age 35, James-age 10, William-age 8, Martha-age 3, Mary E-age 1/12
      - in Southern Subdivision, Tippah Co, MS
      - both censuses list her born in AL?
      dau Catherine Graves abt 1835 - abt 1879 (bef 3/9/1875-father's will lists her as dec. dau)
      - m(1) George W. Meeks
      - on 3/2/1868 married (2) J. F.(?) McDowell
      dau Martha Jane Graves abt 1836 - bef 3/9/1875 (father's will lists her as dec. dau)
      - married Dawson (?) B. Day (Lawson B Day)
      son Madison (or Matheson?) Graves abt 1837 (Jackson Co., AL)
      son Francis Marion Graves 1/17/1839 - 10/14/1902
      - ** See his findagrave.com page **
      - on 7/5/1860 married Louisa J Thomas 1838 - 1896
    Family ID F1262  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart
    Last Modified 6 Jun 2026

    Family 4 Elizabeth Brumley-xx,   b. 01 Jan 1806, TN Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 27 Aug 1884, Tippah Co, MS Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 78 years)
    Marriage 24 Jan 1843  Tishomingo, MS Find all individuals with events at this location  [7
    Notes 

    • Children:

      son Henry L Graves 2/24/1845 - 12/1930
      - abt 1866 married Elizabeth Henson (or C. Elizabeth Hamer according to R-2)

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      found at https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:V28T-KZ1

      Name: Jacob Graves
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      Spouse's Name: Elizabeth Brumley
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      Event Date: 24 Jan 1843
      Event Place: Tishomingo,Mississippi
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      Indexing Project (Batch) Number: M51671-1
      System Origin: Mississippi-ODM
      GS Film number: 895943
      Reference ID:

      Citing this Record:
      "Mississippi Marriages, 1800-1911," database, FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:V28T-KZ1 : 6 December 2014), Jacob Graves and Elizabeth Brumley, 24 Jan 1843; citing Tishomingo,Mississippi; FHL microfilm 895,943.
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      found at findagrave.com

      William J. Graves

      Birth: Oct. 28, 1856 ?? not listed with Jacob & Elizabeth on 1860 or 1870 census - maybe a grandchild? or nephew?
      Death: Nov. 26, 1881

      Family links:
      Parents:
      William Jacob Graves (1783 - 1875)

      Siblings:
      James Edgar Graves (1826 - 1886)* **??**
      Thomas Graves (1827 - 1919)* **??**
      William J. Graves (1856 - 1881) **??**

      *Calculated relationship

      Inscription:
      For we the son of God was slain that we in heaven meet again

      Burial:
      Shelby Creek Cemetery
      Tippah County
      Mississippi, USA

      Created by: evelyn carrico
      Record added: Apr 15, 2002
      Find A Grave Memorial# 6350194
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    Family ID F1263  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart
    Last Modified 6 Jun 2026

  • Event Map
    Link to Google MapsBirth - 01 Jan 1783 - NC Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsMarriage - 24 Jan 1843 - Tishomingo, MS Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsCensus - age 66,wife Elizabeth-age 45, 7 children - 1850 - District 2, Tippah Co, MS Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsCensus - age 70,wife Elisabeth-age 55, son Henry-age 15 - 1860 - Shelby Creek, Tippah Co, MS Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsDeath - 09 Mar 1875 - Tippah Co, MS Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsWill - Recorded 3/26/1876 in Benton Co, MS Will Book Vol 1, p.16 - Bef 26 Mar 1876 - Tippah Co, MS Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsBurial - - Tippah Co, MS Link to Google Earth
     = Link to Google Earth 

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  • Notes 

    • - ** See marriage notes for list of children **

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      found at http://www.gravesfa.org/gen037.htm

      +2. Jacob Graves, b. 1 Jan. 1783, m(1) Peggy Johnson, c. 1806, m(2) Mary Counce, c. 1824, m(3) Elizabeth J. Brumley, 24 Jan. 1843, d. 9 March 1875.

      CHILDREN OF WILLIAM GRAVES (1)

      Jacob Graves (2) was born 1 Jan. 1783 in North Carolina (or possibly SC), died 9 March 1875 in Tippah Co., MS, and was buried in Shelby Creek Cem., on the Tippah Co.-Benton Co. line. He was a farmer and lived in Saulsbury, Tippah Co. He was in the 1840 Hardeman Co., TN census, and in Tippah Co. in 1860 and 1870. His full name may have been Jacob Thomas Graves.

      He moved through TN and arrived in Tippah Co., MS in 1854. He bought land from Zadock Brewer and John Hopkins in 1858.

      In the Tippah Co. Courthouse, Ripley, MS, is a probate packet titled "Thomas Graves, Dec.", but all papers included in it refer to Jacob Graves, Dec. An original document in it states: "Graves, Jacob (PR480), original bill 12 Sept. 1879. Jacob Graves of Benton Co. died 1876, leaving a widow, Elizabeth, and the following heirs: (a) W. C. Graves, a son, (b) J. E. Graves, a son, (c) F. M. Graves, a son, (d) H. L. Graves, a son, (e) James Simpson, Elizabeth Hobson (wife of Frank Hobson), children of Hettie Graves Simpson, dec., dau. of Jacob Graves, dec., (f) John Meeks and William M. Meeks, children of Catherine Meeks, dec., daughter of Jacob Graves, (g) Thomas Graves of Marshall, Searcy Co., Ark., and George Graves of Whitehall, Poinsett Co., Ark., sons of Jacob Graves, (h) Guy Meeks, a minor child of Catherine Meeks, (i) Jane McDowell, a minor child of Catherine Meeks, (j) Sarah Simpson, a minor dau. of Hettie Simpson, (k) Martha J. Brock, a dau. of Hettie Simpson, now the wife of Jacob Brock of Texas, (l) George Day, Laura Day, Eugenia Day, and Ellen Day, children of Martha Day, dec., and grandchildren of Jacob Graves, dec., all of Carthage, Jasper Co., Missouri."

      Jacob first married Peggy Johnson probably about 1806. He married second Mary Counce (or Counts), daughter of John Counts, about 1821 (or 1824[1]). He married Elizabeth Brumley on 24 Jan. 1843. She was his third wife. She was born 1 Jan. 1806 in TN, died 27 Aug. 1884 in Tippah Co., and was buried in Shelby Creek Cem.

      At the time of the 1820 Franklin Co., TN census, Jacob Graves was a widower with 7 children. (R-2, R-7, R-8, R-9, R-10, R-11)

      Children - Graves, by Peggy Johnson
      13. daughter, b. 1804-10, perhaps 1807.
      14. daughter, b. 1804-10, perhaps 1809.
      15. daughter, b. 1810-20.
      16. son, b. 1810-20. Perhaps William Graves.
      17. daughter, b. 1810-20.
      18. son, b. 1810-20. Perhaps John Graves.
      +19. Elizabeth Caroline Graves, b.c. 1818, m. Reuben Riggs.

      Children - Graves, by Mary Counce
      +20. Jacob Graves, b. 30 Nov. 1822, m. Lucinda Flick, 8 Dec. 1843, d. 9 Aug. 1916.
      +21. William Carrel Graves, b. 30 March 1826, m. Louisa Jemima McInturff, 1849, d. 19 April 1888.
      +22. James Edgar Graves, b. 17 Oct. 1826, m. Paralee Frances Rainey, c. 1854, d. 30 Jan. 1886.
      +23. Thomas Graves, b. 27 June 1827 (TN), m. Eliza Englebright, 1857, d. 21 Nov. 1919. Bur. Shelby Creek Cem. No children, but see next generation for more information.
      +24. George Washington Graves, b. 19 Sept. 1829, m(1) Martha Ann Hopper, m(2) Sarah Rebecca James.
      25. Nancy Graves, b.c. 1833 (Jackson Co., AL). Possible twin to Hester.
      +26. Hester Graves, b.c. 1833, m. Wyatt Simpson, c. 1848, d.c. 1876.
      +27. Catherine Graves, b.c. 1835, m(1) George W. Meeks, m(2) J. F.(?) McDowell, 2 March 1868, d.c. 1879.
      +28. Martha Jane Graves, b.c. 1836, m. Dawson (?) B. Day, d.c. 1879.
      29. Madison Graves, b.c. 1837 (Jackson Co., AL).
      +30. Francis Marion Graves, b. 17 Jan. 1839, m. Louisa J. Thomas, 5 July 1860, d. 14 Oct. 1902.

      Children - Graves, by Elizabeth Brumley
      +31. Henry L. Graves, b. 24 Feb. 1845, m. Elizabeth Henson (or C. Elizabeth Hamer according to R-2), c. 1866, d. 6 Dec. 1930.
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      found at http://wc.rootsweb.ancestry.com/cgi-bin/igm.cgi?op=GET&db=rutherford&id=I33302

      ID: I33302 View Post-em!
      •Name: Jacob GRAVES
      •Surname: Graves
      •Sex: M
      •Birth: 1 Jan 1783 in NC
      •Death: 9 Mar 1875
      •Burial: Shelby Creek Cemetery, (Tippah/Benton Line), Tippah Co., MS
      •Reference Number: 33302

      HintsAncestry Hints for Jacob GRAVES

      2 possible matches found on Ancestry.com Ancestry.com

      Father: William GRAVES b: Abt 1755
      Mother: Elizabeth LOVE b: Abt 1763

      Marriage 1 ** actually marriage #2
      Mary (unproved) COUNCE
      •Married: Abt 1821
      Children
      1.Has No Children Jacob GRAVES b: 30 Nov 1822
      2.Has Children William Carrel GRAVES b: 30 Mar 1826 in AL or TN
      3.Has Children James Edgar GRAVES b: 17 Oct 1826 in AL
      4.Has No Children Thomas GRAVES b: 27 Jun 1827 in TN
      5.Has Children George Washington GRAVES b: 19 Sep 1829
      6.Has Children Hester (Hettie) GRAVES b: Abt 1833 in AL
      7.Has No Children Nancy Jane GRAVES b: Abt 1833 in AL
      8.Has Children Catherine GRAVES b: Abt 1834 in AL
      9.Has Children Martha Jane GRAVES b: 1836 in AL
      10.Has No Children Madison (George?) GRAVES b: Abt 1837 in AL
      11.Has Children Marian Francis GRAVES b: 17 Jan 1839 in AL or TN

      Marriage 2 ** actually marriage #1
      Peggy JOHNSON
      •Married:
      Children
      1.Has No Children 3 Unknown Daughters GRAVES
      2.Has No Children Elizabeth Caroline GRAVES
      3.Has No Children Sarah (Sally) GRAVES
      4.Has No Children William GRAVES
      5.Has No Children John GRAVES

      Marriage 3
      Elizabeth J. BRUMLEY b: 1 Jan 1806 in TN
      •Married: 24 Jan 1843 in Tishomingo Co., MS
      Children
      1.Has Children Henry L. GRAVES b: 24 Feb 1845 in MS
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      found at findagrave.com ** memorial #1 bef 6/27/2023

      Jacob Graves

      Birth: Jan. 1, 1783
      Death: Mar. 9, 1875

      Burial:
      Shelby Creek Cemetery
      Tippah County
      Mississippi, USA

      Created by: Brad Campbell
      Record added: Apr 16, 2015
      Find A Grave Memorial# 145098677 ** this memorial has been removed **
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      found at findagrave.com ** memorial #2 on 6/27/2023

      William Jacob Graves ?? William Jacob - not Jacob Thomas?? -- tombstone only has Jacob

      Birth: 1 Jan 1783 North Carolina, USA
      Death: 9 Mar 1875 (aged 92) Benton County, Mississippi, USA
      Burial: Shelby Creek CemeteryTippah County, Mississippi, USA
      Memorial #: 6247707
      Bio:
      Wm Jacob 1st wife Peggy Johnson m. 1803
      children: b. 1810 Jacob Jr., George, Elizabeth Caroline

      2nd wife Mary Counts(Counce?) m. 1825
      children: James Edgar,Thomas, William,Hester,Martha J.,Francis Marion,Nancy Jane, Catherine, Madison

      3rd wife Eliza. Brumley children Henry L.
      Family Members
      Spouse
      Elizabeth J. Brumley Graves 1806-1884
      Children
      James Edgar Graves 1826-1886
      Thomas Graves 1827-1919
      Henry L. Graves 1845-1930
      William Joel Graves 1856-1881
      Created by: evelyn carrico (46526894)
      Added: 10 Mar 2002
      URL: https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/6247707/william-jacob-graves
      Citation: Find a Grave, database and images (https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/6247707/william-jacob-graves: accessed 27 June 2023), memorial page for William Jacob Graves (1 Jan 1783-9 Mar 1875), Find a Grave Memorial ID 6247707, citing Shelby Creek Cemetery, Tippah County, Mississippi, USA; Maintained by evelyn carrico (contributor 46526894).
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      found at findagrave.com ** memorial #2 bef 6/27/2023

      William Jacob Graves ?? William Jacob - not Jacob Thomas?? -- tombstone only has Jacob

      Birth: Jan. 1, 1783
      Death: Mar. 9, 1875
      Benton County ??
      Mississippi, USA

      Wm Jacob 1st wife Peggy Johnson m. 1803
      children: b. 1810 Jacob Jr., George, Elizabeth Caroline

      2nd wife Mary Counts m. 1825
      children: James Edgar,Thomas, William,Hester,Martha J.,Francis Marion,Nancy Jane, Catherine, Madison

      3rd wife Eliza. Brumley children Henry L.

      Family links:
      Spouse:
      Elizabeth Brumley Graves (1806 - 1884)

      Children:
      James Edgar Graves (1826 - 1886)*
      Thomas Graves (1827 - 1919)*
      William J. Graves (1856 - 1881)*

      *Calculated relationship

      Burial:
      Shelby Creek Cemetery
      Tippah County
      Mississippi, USA

      Created by: evelyn carrico
      Record added: Mar 10, 2002
      Find A Grave Memorial# 6247707 ** this memorial is still there **
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  • Sources 
    1. [S25] Findagrave.com.

    2. [S7] 1850 United States Federal Census.

    3. [S43] Military documents.

    4. [S8] 1860 United States Federal Census.

    5. [S9] 1870 United States Federal Census.

    6. [S46] See Documents.

    7. [S48] See Notes.