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John R Graves

John R Graves

Male 1791 - 1859  (67 years)


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  • Name John R Graves
    Birth 03 Sep 1791  Abbeville District, SC Find all individuals with events at this location  [1
    Baptism 22 Jul 1811  [2
    • by Rev. Learner Blackman
    Gender Male
    Census 1820  Franklin Co, TN Find all individuals with events at this location  [3
    age 26-44(29).spouse age 26-44(23?), 4 children 
    Land Grant 09 Feb 1825  Franklin Co, TN Find all individuals with events at this location 
    - 125 acres 
    Land Sale 18 Dec 1828  Franklin Co, TN Find all individuals with events at this location 
    - land on Beans Creek 
    Census 1830  Lincoln Co, TN Find all individuals with events at this location  [4
    age 30-39(39),spouse age 30-39(33), 5 children 
    Land Grant 15 Dec 1832  Lincoln Co, TN Find all individuals with events at this location 
    - 26 1/2 acres 
    Land Grant 15 Dec 1832  Lincoln Co, TN Find all individuals with events at this location 
    - 44 acres 
    Census 1840  Madison Co, TN Find all individuals with events at this location  [5
    age 40-49(49),spouse age 40-49(43), 7 children 
    Land Grant 10 Nov 1849  Madison Co, TN Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Census 1850  Madison Co, TN Find all individuals with events at this location  [6
    age 59,wife Agnes-age 35(?53), 3 children (incl Mary & Noble Jackson & their 5 kids) 
    Will 08 Feb 1859  Madison Co, TN Find all individuals with events at this location  [2, 7
    Recorded 6/6/1859 in Book 7 - p. 48 
    Death 22 May 1859  Madison Co, TN Find all individuals with events at this location  [1
    Findagrave.com 15 Oct 2018 
    See Notes 
    Obituary See Notes 
    Religion Methodist 
    Burial Madison Co, TN Find all individuals with events at this location  [8
    • Cobb (Love) Cem, S. Madison Co, TN (or Hardeman Co, TN)
    Person ID I456  Butler Family Tree
    Last Modified 6 Jun 2026

    Father William Graves,   b. Abt 1750   d. Between 1808 and 1809, Franklin Co, TN Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 58 years)
    Relationship natural
    Mother Elizabeth ???,   b. Bef 1768
    Relationship natural
    Marriage Bef 01 Jan 1783 
    Family ID F159  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

    Family Agnes Noe,   b. 14 Jan 1797, Orange Co, NC Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 18 Jul 1865, Madison Co, TN Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 68 years)
    Marriage 17 Sep 1811  Middle TN Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Children 
     1. Hester Ann Graves,   b. 14 May 1813, Franklin Co, TN Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 09 May 1881, Madison Co, TN Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 67 years)  [Father: natural]  [Mother: natural]
     2. William M Graves,   b. 31 Jul 1815, Franklin Co, TN Find all individuals with events at this locationd. Between 1870 and 1880, Ripley, Lauderdale Co, TN Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 54 years)  [Father: natural]  [Mother: natural]
     3. Thomas N Graves,   b. 02 Mar 1818, Franklin Co, TN Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 21 Nov 1888, Gibson Co, TN Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 70 years)  [Father: natural]  [Mother: natural]
     4. Elizabeth Graves,   b. 27 Aug 1820, Franklin Co, TN Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 18 Oct 1871, Madison Co, TN Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 51 years)  [Father: natural]  [Mother: natural]
     5. James Graves,   b. 27 Aug 1820, Franklin Co, TN Find all individuals with events at this locationd. Bef 1830 (Age < 9 years)  [Father: natural]  [Mother: natural]
     6. Eliza Jane Graves,   b. 19 May 1825, Franklin Co, TN Find all individuals with events at this locationd. Aft 04 Jun 1880 (Age > 55 years)  [Father: natural]  [Mother: natural]
     7. Mary Graves,   b. 15 Feb 1827, Franklin Co, TN Find all individuals with events at this locationd. Between 1865 and 1870 (Age 37 years)  [Father: natural]  [Mother: natural]
     8. John Westley Graves,   b. 11 Mar 1828, Lincoln Co, TN Find all individuals with events at this locationd. Bef 1830 (Age < 1 years)  [Father: natural]  [Mother: natural]
     9. Sarah Emaline Graves,   b. 19 Aug 1830, Lincoln Co, TN Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 23 Apr 1912, Obion Co, TN Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 81 years)  [Father: natural]  [Mother: natural]
     10. Musidora Elizabeth Graves,   b. 04 Jun 1834, Lincoln Co, TN Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 12 May 1905, Lauderdale Co, TN Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 70 years)  [Father: natural]  [Mother: natural]
     11. Samantha Lucinda Graves,   b. 20 Sep 1838, Lincoln Co, TN Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 22 Aug 1907, Madison Co, TN Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 68 years)  [Father: natural]  [Mother: natural]
    Family ID F155  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart
    Last Modified 6 Jun 2026

  • Event Map
    Link to Google MapsBirth - 03 Sep 1791 - Abbeville District, SC Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsMarriage - 17 Sep 1811 - Middle TN Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsCensus - age 26-44(29).spouse age 26-44(23?), 4 children - 1820 - Franklin Co, TN Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsLand Grant - - 125 acres - 09 Feb 1825 - Franklin Co, TN Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsLand Sale - - land on Beans Creek - 18 Dec 1828 - Franklin Co, TN Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsCensus - age 30-39(39),spouse age 30-39(33), 5 children - 1830 - Lincoln Co, TN Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsLand Grant - - 26 1/2 acres - 15 Dec 1832 - Lincoln Co, TN Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsLand Grant - - 44 acres - 15 Dec 1832 - Lincoln Co, TN Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsCensus - age 40-49(49),spouse age 40-49(43), 7 children - 1840 - Madison Co, TN Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsLand Grant - 10 Nov 1849 - Madison Co, TN Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsCensus - age 59,wife Agnes-age 35(?53), 3 children (incl Mary & Noble Jackson & their 5 kids) - 1850 - Madison Co, TN Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsWill - Recorded 6/6/1859 in Book 7 - p. 48 - 08 Feb 1859 - Madison Co, TN Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsDeath - 22 May 1859 - Madison Co, TN Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsBurial - - Madison Co, TN Link to Google Earth
     = Link to Google Earth 

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  • Notes 


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      - 6/4/1838 elected as one of five School Commissioners from District No. 3 in Madison Co, TN
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      48. JOHN R. GRAVES, Madison Co., Tenn. All property for support of his wife AGNES during her life, including negro woman Rench. At her death estate to his children HESTER A. BARRIER, WILLIAM M. GRAVES, ELIZABETH HARRISON, THOMAS N. GRAVES, MARY JACKSON, ELIZA J. HARRISON, SARAH E. RUDDLE, MUSIDORA HARRISON, SAMANTHA L. FREEMAN. Exec William M. Graves, Thomas N. Graves, beloved sons. February 8, 1857. Wits James Newton, Joseph P. Cobb, Sm. C. Cobb.

      MCCM 8, page 481. Will probated June 6, 1859.
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      found at http://www.tngenweb.org/records/madison/obits/ff/obit77.htm

      From Family Findings, Vol. IX, No. 3, July 1977, p. 32
      John R. Graves
      (Obituary printed in the June 9 1859 Memphis, Arkansas and Ouachita Christian Advocate. Submitted by Mrs. J. V. Butler, 702 N. Central Ave., Humboldt, Tn. 34383)
      John R. Graves was born in Abbeville District, South Carolina September 3, 1791; died in Madison County, Tennessee, May 22, 1859. Brother Graves came with his parents to Middle Tennessee in 1804, where he, in September 1811, was united in marriage to Miss Agness Noe; moved to Madison County, Tennessee some twenty or thirty years since. Brother Graves was baptized by Rev. Learner Blackman, July 22, 1811, and joined the Church as a seeker, August 1st of the same year, and was converted to God at a prayer meeting on the same night. He was no meager, dwarfish Christian, but was a warm-hearted earnest Christian. He loved God and loved the Church. He had a noble soul and endeavored to promote the interest of the Church in every way possible. He had served the Church as exhorter, leader, and steward for a number of years with fidelity and usefulness.--
      He was an ardent, earnest man: what he did, he did with all his might. It was my privelege to see him repeatedly during the last winter and spring. I always found him in a happy frame of mind. His disease was Dropsy. He had suffered much for the last eighteen months or two years, but was resigned and patiently bore his afflictions. He often spoke of his approaching dissolution, with that confidence in the truth and power of our holy religion, that only characterizes the true Christian. He was ready. He was a noble man, and the Church has lost a useful member. His family are bereaved indeed and the community has lost a valuable citizen. He leaves wife, some eight children to mourn, and they mourn as those bereaved. May the blessings of the Most High rest upon them.

      J. A. VINCENT

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      John R. Graves and his wife Agness Noe are buried in the old Cobb Cemetery near Medon; Tenn. below Jackson, Tenn. Their tombstones are standing today. He came as a young man of fourteen with an oxe drawn wagon train from S. C. made up of pioneers from N. C. and S. C. The Neo's , Cobb's, Kelley's, Watson's, Harrison's and Freeman's were some of the families that traveled with the Graves. A living descendant of James Kelley married to Samantha Graves keeps the family graveyard. She and her husband aren't in the best of health and we wish others, who have loved ones buried there would endeavor to get in touch for the annual spring clean up.

      Mrs. A. E. Landy
      1427 S. Madison
      San Angelo, Texas 76901
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      found at http://www.tngenweb.org/records/tn_wide/obits/nca/nca6-08.htm

      ADDENDUM
      MEMPHIS, ARKANSAS AND OUACHITA CHRISTIAN ADVOCATE
      (Page 94)

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      JOHN R. GRAVES born Abbeville Dist., So. Carolina, Sept. 3, 1791; died Madison Co., Tenn., May 22, 1859; moved with parents to middle Tenn. 1804; married Agness Noe, Sept. 1811; moved to Madison Co. 20/30 years ago; baptized July 22, 1811; surviving were widow and 8 children.

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      found at findagrave.com on 10/15/2018

      John R. Graves

      Birth: 3 Sep 1791 Abbeville County, South Carolina, USA
      Death: 22 May 1859 (aged 67)
      Burial: Cobb Cemetery, Medon, Madison County, Tennessee, USA
      Memorial #: 6721425

      Bio: from the TNGEN website:
      John R. Graves was born in Abbeville District, South Carolina September 3, 1791; died in Madison County, Tennessee, May 22, 1859. Brother Graves came with his parents to Middle Tennessee in 1804, where he, in September 1811, was united in marriage to Miss Agness Noe; moved to Madison County, Tennessee some twenty or thirty years since. Brother Graves was baptized by Rev. Learner Blackman, July 22, 1811, and joined the Church as a seeker, August 1st of the same year, and was converted to God at a prayer meeting on the same night. He was no meager, dwarfish Christian, but was a warm-hearted earnest Christian. He loved God and loved the Church. He had a noble soul and endeavored to promote the interest of the Church in every way possible. He had served the Church as exhorter, leader, and steward for a number of years with fidelity and usefulness.--He was an ardent, earnest man: what he did, he did with all his might. It was my privelege to see him repeatedly during the last winter and spring. I always found him in a happy frame of mind. His disease was Dropsy. He had suffered much for the last eighteen months or two years, but was resigned and patiently bore his afflictions. He often spoke of his approaching dissolution, with that confidence in the truth and power of our holy religion, that only characterizes the true Christian. He was ready. He was a noble man, and the Church has lost a useful member. His family are bereaved indeed and the community has lost a valuable citizen. He leaves wife, some eight children to mourn, and they mourn as those bereaved. May the blessings of the Most High rest upon them.
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      John R. Graves and his wife Agness Noe are buried in the old Cobb Cemetery near Medon; Tenn. below Jackson, Tenn. Their tombstones are standing today. He came as a young man of fourteen with an oxe drawn wagon train from S. C. made up of pioneers from N. C. and S. C. The Neo's , Cobb's, Kelley's, Watson's, Harrison's and Freeman's were some of the families that traveled with the Graves

      Inscription: Born Abbeville District, SC
      Gravesite Details Stone Broken
      Family Members
      Spouse
      Agness Graves 1797-1865
      Maintained by: Find A Grave (8)
      Originally Created by: Georgia (46502812)
      Added: 25 Aug 2002
      URL: https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/6721425
      Citation: Find A Grave, database and images (https://www.findagrave.com : accessed 15 October 2018), memorial page for John R. Graves (3 Sep 1791–22 May 1859), Find A Grave Memorial no. 6721425, citing Cobb Cemetery, Medon, Madison County, Tennessee, USA ; Maintained by Find A Grave (contributor 8) .
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      found at findagrave.com bef 10/15/2018

      J. R. Graves

      Birth: Sep. 3, 1791
      Death: May 22, 1859

      Inscription:
      Born Abbeville District, SC

      Note: Stone Broken

      Burial:
      Cobb Cemetery
      Madison County
      Tennessee, USA

      Created by: Georgia
      Record added: Aug 25, 2002
      Find A Grave Memorial# 6721425
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      found at http://www.gravesfa.org/gen037.htm

      John R. Graves (6) was born 3 Sept. 1791 in Abbeville Dist., SC, and died 22 May 1859 in Madison Co., TN. He came as a young man of fourteen with an ox-drawn wagon train from SC, made up of pioneers from NC and SC. The Noes, Cobbs, Kelleys, Watsons, Harrisons, and Freemans were some of the families that traveled with the Graves family. He married Agness Noe on 17 (or 11) Sept. 1811. She was born 14 Jan. 1797 in TN (possibly either Franklin Co. or Lincoln Co.), and died 18 July 1865. John received a land grant in Franklin Co., TN, in 1825, and two in Lincoln Co., TN, in 1832. It would be reasonable to assume they lived in each of these counties. They then moved to Madison Co., TN, about 1828. Some of the family later migrated to Lauderdale Co., TN. Both John and Agness were buried in the old Cobb/Love Cem. near Medon, TN, below Jackson, TN. Their tombstones are standing today. A descendant of James Kelley married to Samantha Graves used to tend the family graveyard, but it gets no regular care now.

      The following obituary of John R. Graves appeared in the Memphis, Arkansas and Ouachita Christian Advocate for June 9, 1859, and was written by J. A. Vincent. "John R. Graves was born in Abbeville District, S.C., Sept. 3, 1791, and died in Madison Co., TN, May 22, 1859. Brother Graves came with his parents to Middle Tennessee in 1804, where he, in Sept. 1811, was united in marriage to Miss Agness Noe, moved to Madison Co., TN, some twenty or thirty years since. Brother Graves was baptized by Rev. Learner Blackman, July 22, 1811, and joined the Church as a seeker, August 1st of the same year, and was converted to God at a prayed meeting on the same night. He was no meager, dwarfish Christian, but was a warm-hearted, earnest Christian. He loved God and loved the Church. He had a noble soul and endeavored to promote the interest of the Church in every way possible. He had served the Church as exhorter, leader, and steward for a number of years with fidelity and usefulness. He was an ardent, earnest man; what he did, he did with all his might. It was my privilege to see him repeatedly during the last winter and spring. I always found him in a happy frame of mind. His disease was dropsy[2]. He had suffered much for the last eighteen months or two years, but was resigned and patiently bore his afflictions. He often spoke of his approaching dissolution, with that confidence in the truth and power of our holy religion that only characterizes the true Christian. He was ready. He was a noble man, and the Church has lost a useful member. His family are bereaved indeed, and the community has lost a valuable citizen. He leaves a wife, some eight children to mourn, and they mourn as those bereaved. May the blessing of the Most High rest upon them." (R-1, R-3, R-11)

      Children - Graves

      +32. Hester Ann Graves, b. 11 May 1813, m. Henry Barrier, d. 9 May 1881.
      +33. William M. Graves, b. 31 July 1815, m. Mary Jane Watson, 13 Dec. 1838, d. 14 Aug. 1855 (or 1865).
      +34. Thomas N. Graves, b. 2 March 1818, m. Emily Tabitha Manley, 1 Feb. 1844, d. 21 Nov. 1888.
      +35. Elizabeth Graves, b. 27 Aug. 1820, m. James Harrison, d. 18 Oct. 1871.
      +36. Eliza P. Graves, b. 16 May 1825, m. Andrew J. Harrison, 11 Sept. 1845.
      37. Mary Graves, b. 15 Feb. 1827, m. Noel Jackson, 15 Sept. 1841.
      38. John Westley Graves, b. 11 March 1828 (Lincoln Co., TN).
      +39. Sarah Emmaline Graves, b. 19 Aug. 1830, m. Cornelius C. Ruddle, 12 July 1849, d. 23 April 1912.
      +40. Musidora Graves, b. 4 June 1834, m. Francis Marion Harrison, 10 Aug. 1853.
      +41. Samantha Lucinda Graves, b. 20 Sept. 1838, m(1) George Washington Freeman, 17 Jan. 1859, m(2) James Duncan Kelly, Sept. 1865, d. 22 Aug. 1907.
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  • Sources 
    1. [S66] Tombstone.

    2. [S48] See Notes.

    3. [S4] 1820 United States Federal Census.

    4. [S5] 1830 United States Federal Census.

    5. [S6] 1840 United States Federal Census.

    6. [S7] 1850 United States Federal Census.

    7. [S43] Military documents.

    8. [S25] Findagrave.com.